I receive many questions about open bar vs. cash bar so I decided to post an article I read about cash bar etiquette. This is a debate that I believe will never end however I always leave it up to each couple. Here is an article about the cash bar issue from elegala.com. "Yes, weddings are expensive. Yes, couples should be on the lookout for budget saving tips. Yes, weddings are expensive - we know. But never - under any circumstances - should you ever consider hosting a cash bar at your reception. Think about it - you would never ask anyone to pay for a cocktail in your own home. People at your reception are still your guests, even if the event is not held in your house. That said, if a full bar is not within your budget, consider these alternatives:
Host a soft bar, in which guests can order champagne, beer and wine.
Find a reception site that allows you to bring in your own alcohol; you will save serious cash, and anything unopened can be returned for a full refund.
Cut down the size of your guest list - the only significant way to reduce costs in the first place."
HTH!
SO what if the location sets up a cash bar without your knowledge? this was the situation at my brother's reception over the weekend. the vendor set up at the front of the hall and it wasn't until patrons went there that they were informed the items displayed were for sale! soooooo unprofessional. the bride and groom supplied cider and red/white wine and that's all they wanted for their guests. smh
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